Love.  Are you ready to get some of that for YOU? 

I hear you.  This is my life work…recovery.

Healing. Transformation. Freedom.

This course is for you if: 

• You're tired of getting into and staying in one-way relationships.
• You get addicted to people and can't let go. 
• You are in a relationship with someone who can't commit.
• You have a pattern of overcommitting in relationships and not getting much back.
• You keep getting abandoned.
• You can't stop obsessing.

I CAN’T WAIT TO HELP YOU TO:

• Be able to identify yourself as either a love addict, love avoidant or both; & understand the characteristics of both.
• Be able to see the origin of your patterns.
• Be able to identify fears that drive love addiction -  one conscious and one unconscious.
• Be able to identify the traits in your partner which trigger the fantasy and the attraction to what is familiar.
• Understand the cycles and how you participate in each part of the cycle.
• Learn how to get out of the cycle by putting the relationship on hold and focusing on loving yourself.
• Go through withdrawal (if necessary) and truly learn to love the self
• Learn the adult skills of SELF-ESTEEM, BOUNDARIES, REALITY, SELF-CARE AND MODERATION.
• Understand the concept of bombing as a substitute for healthy relating.
• Begin to heal the bruised relationship with the self.
• Shrinking the Inner Critic.
• Learn the components of a healthy relationships. AND MORE…….

This course includes:

~~ 51-page workbook

~~Online classroom with 28 videos

And more….

Although this is a 4-week program, recovery is a process.
Once you’ve enrolled in the program, it is yours forever.
Return to it as often as you like. 

Recovery is different for everyone, but students who work consistently on the program and their inner healing can expect positive results. 

The workbook is an invaluable part of the healing process and you can use it over and over.  I cannot stress enough the importance of a recovery support group such as Al-Anon, ACA or CODA.  We don’t heal in a vacuum.  As far as how long healing will take.  As my sponsor used to say, “There are no goal posts when it comes to recovery.” However, if you keep at it, you will heal!

Note if you are in a domestic violence situation: Domestic violence should be dealt with in a way that keeps you safe. It's important to determine a safe exit.  If you are not in a safe situation, please get into a safe situation before beginning the course.

Disclaimer: The Finally Loving Ourselves program is not a substitute for therapy.  Results vary.